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so how is this for effed up? My guy friend and I were having a normal conversation when he brings up the singer Lizzo and says to me that she is just too big and that her size should not be celebrated. I'm certain my face betrayed my feelings as I am sure that Lizzo and I are nearing the same size. This was almost 3 weeks ago and I have been sulking since. I mean, where this fella isn't my boyfriend, he is my best friend and we occasionally hook up. So yesterday I declare to him that he hurt my feelings and I need to lose weight size a size 24 (American) is too large. To which he replies that he is attracted to my size and wants me to stay the same. I'm rather confused now.
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Ok, so it took me a minute, but here's what I think. He doesn't know Lizzo, but he knows you. Also, you should only change if you decided it. If you want to make changes, then do so. Don't let other people dictate if you lose weight. Do it for you.
29 dez 20 por membro: CurvyH
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Think about your health more than your appearance. Losing weight is not about “own acceptance “ but a way to live better, longer more comfortable.
Keep the hustle up for yourself. People come and go, you will always be “by yourself” in a certain way.
30 dez 20 por membro: dudaum12
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Dadaum12, thank you for your encouragement. I am healthy though. I use to be active in sports. I'm accustomed to jobs where I'm on my feet all day long. I am also "by myself ". I have been told plenty of times that I would be pretty if I wasn't fat. I have had so many men willing to sleep with me if we can just keep it a secret. No, I don't need a man for validation or anything else. But, damn, it would be nice.
30 dez 20 por membro: cassie0082
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That's totally messed up. As someone who is older and had more than my share of boyfriends, he is not a friend, doesn't have your best interests at heart and is missing a sensitivity chip. He is "enjoying" playing you emotionally for sex. You deserve more than occasional hookups and hurt feelings.
Dump him like week old rotten fish!
I'm in your corner! There's plenty of fresh and kind fish in the sea💛
30 dez 20 por membro: aintgotaname
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Trust yourself and trust the process. Soon you will be killing it. I believe in you !
05 jan 21 por membro: dudaum12
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I wouldn’t take it to heart, some men don’t know how to not poop where they eat. If he says he likes you the way you are I would take it and carry-on you take care of you
08 jan 21 por membro: ocean_girl
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Maybe he is trying to hint that it would be healthier if you lose some weight, but also does not want to hurt your feelings
10 jan 21 por membro: JivaGnosis
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Java, nah, he is a former body builder who prefers big girls. He wants me to be healthy, of course, but he likes having the weight to snuggle with. He's a complicated fella. I've just learned over the years to do whatever I want to do. Like I said, we aren't a couple. I've seen him really shredded for competitions and I've seen him fat. Doesn't bother me either way because it doesn't change who he is.
11 jan 21 por membro: cassie0082
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