I am surviving, don’t know what I weigh lately, least of my worries. Have been going to my brother’s on the weekends as he has passed and he was a bit of a hoarder with his older age. He is honestly making me a hoarder as I am taking his stuff home with us and it’s filling up my home. I believe he let his home go as he was depressed and not feeling well. I am lucky to be well, yet in June I was not well, so June was terrible. Then July came and my brother passed away, hated July!!!

Now my dog was attacked by a coyotes last week and he had to be put down, I hate August too now! I will miss him with all my heart. A perfect dog, yet not the cutest.

So we were going to my brother’s Saturday and the van broke down, it’s in the shop now, and we ended not going this weekend, and the van will be a the shop most of next week.

We fixed up my son’s car and picked it up Saturday for him and he drove it to work today and stated most of the gas is gone! I ignored him, but there was no thank yous just complaints. He’s impossible and hard to live with. I know he doesn’t like himself at all, so he is negative and only has negative things to say, very sad.☹️

I refuse to let life get me down!!! I am drinking my coffee and planning on organizing some of my brother’s stuff. Oh, and as we were in the driveway yesterday, getting ready to leave to my brother’s a UPS truck came and brought my brother’s ashes to us. Lucky the van was not working and we were still here. Now, my brother and his wife are together.🙃

I have been blessed in many ways, and I am grateful! I don’t know what the future holds, but I know I am having a busy day and ordering pizza tonight.🍕😋I know work is the greatest thing in the world to keep us healthy, so maybe I should save some of it for tomorrow.😁

On top of everything else our bedroom flooded from the washer breaking down. It turned out it was the sink and not the washer that broke down, it had a hole in the drain. It’s fixed now, but I still have to deal with a mess. Sometimes the appropriate response to reality is just to go insane. So I am not ignoring my Fat Secret, I am just taking one step at a time and trying to avoid stepping on snakes. 🥹🐍

Have a Stupendous Sunday! 🌺☀️💕
Remember a diamond is just a lump of coal that did well under pressure.

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There are times I have wished that the Lord would do more than stand by me, like pick up a shovel and help dig me out of whatever muck I was dealing with. My 2022 and 2023 were both disastrous ending with my sister dying a horrible death. Thank goodness 2024 has seen me back to my normal life. We have to be grateful for small things.  
18 ago 24 por membro: Kenna Morton
Please keep taking good care of yourself as you grieve. It's a lot to go through. Life, food, everything will normalize but it takes time. Pizza sounds like a good choice after working hard all day. It's easy prep. Looking back I can say that I wish I had not been led by my emotions when cleaning out my loved one's things. Although I did take a lot to a nearby thrift store, I still brought too much back home with me. After grieving, much of it ended up in thrift stores near me.  
18 ago 24 por membro: losingtowin1
Shrewd, I'm so sorry for everything you've had to endure this month. Sending hugs to you and your family. You are strong and even through tragedy, you take the time to make us smile. Hope you're smiling with us through your pain.  
18 ago 24 por membro: thiccmami
Sometimes it's difficult to see beyond the pain of today. It can feel insurmountable. I'm holding you in my heart. May your days going forward lift you up to a better place soon. (((HUGS))) 💛💚💜 
18 ago 24 por membro: shirfleur 1
BIG HUG!!!! You are strong enough, good enough. Keep staying positive. Keep doing what you can day by day. Storms don't last forever and eventually all will balance out. Great job already. Peace be with you. Going insane is never the answer because then you might do something you regret later or make things worst and still have to clean up.  
18 ago 24 por membro: Berry Well 42
Yikes! I'm sending you hugs and some positive vibes to get you through this. When it rains it pours. Take care and hopefully things will get better! Oh, I sent you a private message a couple weeks ago💜 
18 ago 24 por membro: Diana 1234
You've been thru so much and still you manage to maintain an upbeat and positive attitude. You are truly an inspiration to aspire to, Shir. Sending hugs and prayers things get better for you soon xo  
18 ago 24 por membro: Windy Day
Oh my gosh bless your ♥️!!! You are literally living in a soap opera life right now! I’m so very sorry for the loss of your brother 😞. Sorry he began hoarding and now you have to deal with it! Big prayers NOTHING else happens, at least long enough for you to catch your breath! Hugs! 
18 ago 24 por membro: StormsGirl
🙏 Prayers 🙏 “The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; He delivers them from all their troubles.” (Psalm 34:17) 
18 ago 24 por membro: Yippee Ki Yay
Yky— people all over the world have been crying, praying, begging for help but so far they have not been delivered of their troubles.  
18 ago 24 por membro: Kenna Morton
Yikes, that is a lot to have to process I'm sorry to hear about your brother. It's hard to deal with the lose of a loved especially when you are close. It always seems like bad events in life cluster too for some reason I'm not sure why that is but I do believe it to be true. Make sure that you prioritize your own mental health not just your sons remember that you can't help anyone else if you're not able to help yourself. I do understand what you mean about processing your brother's things though it's amazing how stressful and time-consuming it can be to go through things just to itemize them to figure out what's valuable what needs to be thrown away who to give it away to just the mental fatigue not just the physical organization and follow through that it takes to get rid of the things. I hope that you're able to find some peace and rest here soon I don't think that anybody felt that you were ignoring us so much is that you had other things on your mind at this time. Especially now that you've explained the hardships that you're going through I think no one will follow you for being unable to post this or that. 
18 ago 24 por membro: Leah_guffey
Hugs and hope that your future days are brighter and full of love and happiness. 
18 ago 24 por membro: Leah_guffey
You have suffered some really significant losses. I am especially sorry about your brother and dog. So horrible to lose loved ones. I agree with Kenna. Help should look and feel like help. I ended up looking like a hoarder too after my mom died and am still getting rid of stuff. Be patient with yourself. Don't push yourself too hard. I will be praying for you. Hugs.  
18 ago 24 por membro: -MorticiaAddams
everything is hitting you at once. I'm so sorry.  
18 ago 24 por membro: davidsprincess
Oh my, I am so sorry for your losses, Shrewd. What a difficult month. Sending hugs and prayers. Please remember to take care of yourself. And, pizza sounds perfect tonight! 🙏🙏❤️ 
18 ago 24 por membro: Javadali
"when it rains, it pours" ...when it pours it thunderstorms. I hope your umbrella ☔ is sturdy. You are enduring so much... I feel for you, dear shrewd, and hope for you only the best moving forward. it's been a really rough summer, and hope you can find respite in the fall. 
18 ago 24 por membro: DAZEY_iz_Well
I’m so sorry about your brother and fur baby . Please God comfort our dear friend . In Jesus name we pray 🙏🩵☀️🌄 
18 ago 24 por membro: CharlieLovesChaplin
may God bless his soul 🙏  
19 ago 24 por membro: Patriotpaul
Sending lots of prayers 
19 ago 24 por membro: RN16
You have so much on your plate mamaS!! Praying for you. ❤️❤️🙏🏻 
19 ago 24 por membro: wifey9707

     
 

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