Once you reach the 40's it becomes more difficult to lose weight. I have been 105kg since who can remember .I hardly gained weight when i was pregnant had my son when i turned 40 and my daughter 2yrs later. I gained a lot post pregnancy. My daughter turned 1 in 2017 & i decided to shed the post baby weight. According to my BMI i am in the extremely obese range. My biggest problem is that I eat when I am bored i cannot stop snacking & munching.