I turned 40 this past September-will be happily married 18 years the end of this month-have a 7 year old daughter-tried unsuccessfully (fertility drugs for a year)to have another baby- feel really blessed to have our daughter-quit my full time career as a product marketing manager to be astay-at-home mom when she turned 4 (best thing I ever did) began working part time for an attorney close to home when she started to school. Have gained about 25-30 extra pounds over these past 4 years - My husband and I have started this together, with the help of our 'all natural healthy' guru friend.