I WANT TO BE A REAL GIRL Doing what is required to feel good about oneself and is worth the effort. Loving and taking care of ones self by stepping outside of guilt, coming from your power, not your weakness, accepting yourself as you are right now, not taking oneself so seriously, and choosing life.

The following pledge is very moving. I copied and pasted it to my journal and then retyped it myself as it is exactly what I needed to Pledge to my body.

I hereby agree from this day forward to fully participate in life on earth. I agree to inhabit the appropriate vehicle for participation, a body. As a requisite for the sustaining of that body, I agree to eat consciously. The agreement fully binds me for the duration of my stay on earth.

As an eater, I agree to hone my hunger, eating when I feel hungry and stopping when I feel full. I recognize that as the biological need to eat is fulfilled with greater awareness, the benefits of well being will increase.

Because the essence of my participation in life is one of learning and exploration, I agree to experience uncertainty in my eating. I recognize my relationship to food is a learning process and I will inevitably make mistakes. Therefore, I agree to accept my humanness and imperfections and not blame or judge myself.

As an eater, I accept pain, I recognize that I may suffer pain when my body is disturbed by my choice of food and eating habits. I may also experience pain when emotional and spiritual hungers are confused with physical hunger. During these times I agree to sit with and hold a safe place inside myself in which to explore painful and difficult feelings. I recognize that to be fully alive I must be willing to heave the courage to sit with a full range of emotions.

I agree to work on finding the time and energy necessary to feed and care for my body. I pledge to speak lovingly and kindly to myself and to incorporate movement into my life in fun and joyful ways.

I further agree to accept that I have a woman's body: a body that is imperfect, vulnerable, curved and rounded. Because I am giving up the need to be perfect, I am willing to accept my body at its natural weight. I realize that my female body has qualities that mark my womanhood and that have a profound role and effect on human kind.

I recognize that eating joins me to all humaity and at its deepest level is an affirmation of life. Each time I eat, I agree somewhere inside to continue life on earth. The choice to eat is a fundamental act of love and nourishment, a true celebration of my existence.

I choose life again and again and again.

- Wellons, L, Celebrating the Body (1997), Austin, TX

Thank you Medusa and K8yk for posting this. It is beautiful.

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that indeed is beautiful!! I think i need to print it out and remember it..especially when I'm having a difficult day!!! 
17 jul 10 por membro: amy1flite
This is very well said and very much what I have been working to embrace myself. Thanks for sharing it!! Life is indeed worth living and embracing!! 
17 jul 10 por membro: madaboutmoose
Thanks for posting! It is sure something that we all need to remember. 
17 jul 10 por membro: chattycathy1955
I concur - this is very good. I especially loved this part: "I pledge to speak lovingly and kindly to myself and to incorporate movement into my life in fun and joyful ways." However, I take exception to the use of the word "imperfect" in the description of a woman's body. I think I'd either take that word out or simply take off the "im". :) <3 
17 jul 10 por membro: mossum
Excellent post! 
17 jul 10 por membro: information
I love that pledge and I am really happy you reposted it so as many as possible can read it :). You're the best, Lisa. You are a really special person and it is a privilege to be counted among your friends :) 
17 jul 10 por membro: k8yk
We're not buddies but thank you for posting this. Not only did I need to read that, I sent it to my best friend who needs to hear this more than she realizes. So thank you! 
17 jul 10 por membro: Evil_Angel_Shay
I have a problem with perfect and here is my story. I am number 3 of four girs. The smart one, the crazy one, the perfect one, and the irresponsible one. I like imperfect because I don't see anything in this world as perfect, especially myself. Imperfect is very much acceptable for me. I don't know and am open for debate lol.  
17 jul 10 por membro: Lisa Online
k8yk, the power of friendship is enormous. I am privileged to have YOU and my other friends in my life as well. Amazing just how many absolutly fabulous people are in our world, especially when we see and hear so much bad news and negativity. Take a leap of faith and trust and a support group appears and it is not a dream it is real. I live my life as i wish it to be, and I think to myself "What a Wonderful World". TOWANDA!!  
17 jul 10 por membro: Lisa Online

     
 

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