Divorced...Have 1 son at home 19 yrs old...1 cat(died)...15yrs old...The rest of the kids are on their own...I kicked them all out.Made them leave.. I moved...left no forwarding address..why??? because they all made me fat...Yes, that's what I said F A T ..with each child I put on more weight..I weighed 104 ,,Then I had Steve..(he's 34 now)..put on weight..then Greg(29)..more fat.then the Twins ..Miranda& Sean.(25).whoa..a double whammy...thought I was done with child-bearing..then...out popped another one..at 40 no less..Branden(18)..So I have a lot to lose!I do a lot of internet dating...met some real nice guys on here...but I am going to stop for a bit...Most of the time it is dinner dates..hard on a diet...Even harder to explain to the guy...Yes...I only eat rice...rice...rice..I am already a bit weird..They would say how are you so fat when all you eat is rice?? lol.. ok...my job..I work with the elderly,mostly Alzheimers patients..I like to go out and do Karoke..I am part Cherokee and I make Native American crafts..I like music and theatre..Greg is an actor /singer locally so I go to a lot of performances..I like most music(except country) ,Hoobastank Luther Vandross,Linkin Park,Flyleaf,Evanescence,Nickleback,Clay Aiken..Adam Lambert..I guess that's it..OMG...Is that all there is about me???...I need to do more things ....make my life a little bit exciting so I will have more to write about !!! Oh yes,...I'm Gemini...Did I mention I had twins???lol